Our Mission:

 St. Thomas the Apostle Church is a

caring, welcoming, Christian community

experiencing God through the Spirit of

warmth, belonging and joy. 

Ash Wednesday  - 12:10 Mass & 5:30 PM Mass (Distribution of Ashes takes place during Mass) 
Mondays during Lent  - Confessions 6:00 PM -6:30 PM
Wednesday, February 21st - Ecumenical "Way of the Cross"
6 PM Soup Supper 
7 PM Stations of the Cross
Wednesdays: February 28th, March 7th, 14th, 21st - "The Meaning of the Mass"
A four-week series with Father Tom as you examine the Eucharist in history, documents and theology. Call the office to register and to reserve a copy of the workbook.  
Thursday Soup Supper & Lenten discussions - 6 PM in Church hall (except February 22nd)
Fridays during Lent (except February 23rd)  - "Way of the Cross"  7:30 PM in the Church 
Sunday March 18th - Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick during 11 AM Mass



Please join us this Sunday, February 18th following the 9 AM Mass for coffee and pastries,

as we say bid a fond farewell to Angela Arpino for her many years of service to the children and families of Saint Thomas. 

Thank you, Angela for your hard work and dedication to Saint Thomas. You will be missed! 


Lenten Soup Suppers

Join us every Thursday at 6 PM in the Church hall for our annual Soup Suppers and Lenten discussions. 

Sign-up sheets are in the vestibule.

If you would like to bring a soup or loaf of bread to be shared family style, please specify on the sheet.  

(Please NOTE - no supper on February 22nd, rather will be held on WEDNESDAY, February 21st at 6 PM)  

College Scholarship

The Men of Saint Thomas (M.O.S.T.) are offering $2000 in scholarship opportunities
to high school seniors who attend Saint Thomas the Apostle Church in Oxford, Ct. 
The deadline for complete applications  is Friday, March 23, 2018. 
Scholarship application and requirements can be found in the Church vestibule or follow the link below
2018 M.O.S.T. Scholarship application 

Organ Concert

Saint Thomas will be hosting a FREE  concert on February 25, 2018 at 4 PM  with music by Bach, Mendelssohm and Piazzolla. 

Cathedral organist, Dr. Ezequiel Menendez will be performing on Saint Thomas' newly installed Allen Organ. He will be accompanied by Maestro Daniel Binelli performing on the Bandoneon (similar to an accordian). Please join us for this free concert in the Church on February 25th.  

Committee planning meeting

Please join us on Tuesday, February 27, 2018 at 7 PM in the Church hall as we work together to form parish committees of  Evangelization, Education, Community Life, Building & Grounds, Liturgy and Social Justice. 

We welcome your thoughts, ideas and input and look forward to seeing you on the 27th. Please call the parish office and let us know you can attend or if you have any questions. 

Mass Times

Saturday Vigil Mass:
4:00 PM Winter hours (begin 1st Sunday in November)
5:00 PM Summer hours (begin 2nd Sunday in March)

Sunday Mass:
7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, and 11:00 AM

Weekday Mass:
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday 8:00 AM.

Check bulletin and website for Holy Day mass times and schedule.


Confessions are held every Saturday one hour before the Vigil Mass or by appointment.

Office Hours

Monday through Friday : 9 - 5

Parish Staff

Father Dom & Sister Beth's Retirement Party

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Psalm 29:11